Misusing Maturity
"Lack of maturity" has to be one of the most off-used reasons for the failure of a relationship.
Actually, its merely a convenient excuse people use to hide their own shallowness. If you accept that maturity is approximately a function of a person's age, it stands to reason that people who look for mature relationships should pick their dates from amongst the well-preserved elderlies rather than amongst the freshly sucked lollies (they start tasting funny after a few licks). But since its the later that people date, its unrealistic for people to expect that they'll get what they profess to want. Unless, of course, what they profess to want isn't actually what they really want, which is ultimately just plain ol' sex. Everything else is just to make themselves look virgin to their next fuck buddy.
Alright, I admit that I might be oversimplifying a bit. Along with good sex, people want someone who is open, wise, strong and kind; someone who can teach, inspire, listen, comfort, share, love, encourage, and care; someone sho knows what they want, what he can offer, and pretty much everything else.
Basically, people just want to get it on with God.
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